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Mar 5, 2013

Tulis Keinginanmu di Kertas lalu Tempelkan!

Terhitung dari pertengahan januari 2013, aku mulai masukin beberapa lamaran untuk on the job training (bahasa gaulnya: magang) di beberapa hotel di jogja. Karena emang udah jadi syarat kelulusan untuk penilaian kalau semester 5 itu wajib training! Mungkin karena males kali yah, makanya waktu itu aku terlalu santai buat ngurusin training :B

Udah masuk bulan Februari, baru mulai gencar-gencarnya aku bolak-balik ngurusin surat permohonan training di kampus, keluar-masuk hotel buat ngasih surat lamaran. Ada yang masukin surat lamaran sampai sekarang belum dipanggil interview, ada yang udah terlanjur interview terus terakhirnya malah disaranin sama HRD-nya buat training di departemen lain (yang ini jelas aku tolak secara nggak sesuai sama penjurusanku), ada yang interviewnya bertele-tele (hari ini interview sama HRD, besok seminggu lagi dipanggil untuk interview sama departmen head-nya dan kenyataanya belum dihubungi lagi sampai sekarang), ada yang dateng langsung interview terus belum diterima (alias ditolak). Ah, itu semua udah biasa aku alamin selama 2 bulan terakhir ini. Huhuhu~

Kalo kata Bowo sih "tulis yang kamu pengenin dikertas terus tempelin di tempat yang selalu kamu liat". Yaudah, nurut-nurut aja aku mah (nurutnya karena dipaksa doi pada waktu itu :B). "HARUS TRAINING di BULAN MARET!!!" itu yang aku tulis dan ditempel di samping rak buku. Karena tata letak rak bukunya selalu keliatan dari posisi kasurku *opoh*

Singkat cerita, setelah itu aku masukin lamaran di salah satu hotel bintang 5 di Solo. Prosesnya juga cepet, datang langsung di interview dan..... aku di terima. Iya, di terima di Solo. Tapi kenapa harus di Solo ya? Nanti kan jadinya gini, terus gitu blablabla. Di tolak bingung, diterima malah galau. Dasar manusia~

Aku sharing sama Bowo. Terus doi ngasih masukan kalau nggak mau di Solo, aku harus lebih giat lagi nyari trainingan yang di Jogja. Oke baiklah, daripada training harus jauh-jauh ya kan~ dan nggak lupa juga aku tempelin tulisan yang berbunyi "HARUS BISA TRAINING di JOGJA!!!". Kali ini tanpa paksaan :B

Nggak lama kemudian, aku dapet panggilan interview dari hotel di Jogja dan.... kali ini aku diterima :') Seneng banget ternyata hotel di Jogja masih ada yang mau nerima aku :'D Mulai tanggal 17 Maret aku udah bisa training di sana. Ternyata, "Tulis Keinginanmu di Kertas lalu Tempelkan" itu benar adanya. Tapi yang lebih penting dari semua ini adalah usahanya. Yakin aja kalau kamu bisa ngelakuinnya. Jangan lupa juga tawakal, meminta kepada Tuhan agar dimudahkan segala urusan. Karena segiat apapun kamu berusaha, Tuhan-lah yang menentukan :D

tulisanku yang ditempel di rak xD


Feb 23, 2013

A Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationship is like.......... being single, going through a break-up and having a relationship all at the same time. It’s a crazy experience to go through. Some people will tell you that you are lucky to at least have someone. However, there are many days you feel unlucky. You may feel sad or jealous when you see happy couples spending time together like people going through a break-up feel. You also don’t have someone to do things with and have a lot of time to yourself like a single person because the one you love is not here with you. Yet, you do have someone who wants to be with you and does love you like people who are in a relationship. That is a lot to deal with every day.


The other frustration is figuring out how to actually be together. For some couples it is only a matter of time. Once you or your partner are done with college or the military you can be together. For other couples, its more complicated. It is a matter of who is going to leave their family, friends and hometown to move closer to the other person. This decision can be very stressful on a relationship. It is hard to compromise sometimes. For those of you going through all this frustration, believe me, it is worth it. You will appreciate one another more when you can spend more time together. If you can make it through all this stress, you can make it through anything.

Time has a way of slowing down when we are in pain. Being apart is painful. Your friends will try to understand and support you. But no one can actually know how painful it is until they are dealing with it. However, you need your friends now more than ever. It will be hard at times for you to relate to them or for them to relate to you. Your friends who have their boyfriend or girlfriend here may frustrate you when you have to see them together. It may be hard for your friends to know what to say at times. Just remember that everyone is trying their best to be there for you.

No one can argue that this time apart is hard. Some days it will be easy to tell your self to be positive. Other days, the sadness will just take over no matter how hard you try to be upbeat. This situation is definitely not ideal, but there are others out there who do know how you feel. Many couples have survived this period of their relationship and you will too. Do what you can to process your emotions in positive ways and don’t be too hard on yourself when you feel depressed. Keep looking forward to that day when you will be together and someone else will be jealous of you! :'D



Jan 28, 2013

Birthday's Girls!

Tanggal 28 Januari hari ini, si mumun ulang tahun loh yang ke 13. Fyi, mumun tuh adek ku :B Jangan kaget, nama aslinya bukan mumun kok, tapi anissa. Kok ya bisa dipanggil mumun? Entahlah, aku juga udah lupa gimana sejarah terbentuk nama mumun.... 

Jadi. pas jam 00.00 tengah malam tadi, aku selaku kakak yang baik yang inget tanggal ulang tahun adeknya, ngasih kejutan gitu deh ke mumun. Dianya udah molor duluan dari jam 10 -_- yaudah, aku masuk kamarnya gitu... Dan nyanyi lagu 'happy birthday to you' layaknya cewek yang mau ngasih surprise ke pacarnya. Barengan mamaku juga, ugh.... Sok sweet banget kan...



mumun


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3 orang temenku juga ada yang ulang tahunnya bulan Januari loh.... Dan ini dia orang - orangnya:

1. Adista si gitar

yang pake celana pendek, ulangtaun tanggal 12 Januari


2. Mamik alias mamak alias Aghni

pojok kanan, ulangtaun tanggal 16 Januari


3. Sekar Bestari

Ulangtaun tanggal 23 Januari, tapi yang kemaren aku absen gitu nggak ikutan ngasih kejutan gegara ada halangan, hiks. Maap ya sek, tapi.... Jangan sedih, fotomu juga aku tampilin kok disini.......

Sekar :B